Okay, cool down. It’s not really that hard to write a love letter. I have a lot more trouble writing post and articles for this website than writing love letters to my lover.
I know you think it has to be the Best Romantic Love Letter ever. It will be. Take a moment to think about how you feel for your loved one, and organize your thoughts.
Start with Love.
When I started writing love letters to my wife we had only had one date. I was in the military and had to go back to the base and wouldn’t be back for at least a week or two, maybe more. The base was about 4 hours away, and I didn’t have a car at the time. Plus the training schedules had us out on weekends sometimes. So, it was hard to know when I would be back.
I decided I better come up with something that would get her attention on me and not thinking about dating someone else. The night before heading back I thought about writing a letter to tell her how awesome she made me feel when she was around. I’d have my friends that I stay with give it to her in the morning then call her in a couple of days to let her know I was for real. It was the only thing I could come up with, that seemed romantic and didn’t cost money I didn’t have.
Having Never wrote anything like that before it took a few minutes to start. Then I had to start over about 20 times before the truth hit me. I am in love for the first time in my life. 23 years old and just realized that this is love.
The problem for me after that was, our relationship was not even a week old. We had met though friends and were able to spend time together. But, how do you tell someone that you love them after only a few days hanging out and one date.
Heck, how do you tell yourself that and still believe it. I’m still working that out. I’d seen a lot of people move to fast and get hurt. With a leap of faith in my being able to read her enough to know she was interested in me I did it.
The first line in the letter was – I love you. I know you might think I’m crazy but I love you.
The Content is Why and How you love them.
After, confessing my love to her I then explained how I knew it was love. The way I wanted to spend every minute close to her and the feeling that everything was great when she smiled.
You do not have to be a poet to write down “I love you”. Say some nice things as the reason for that love. Once you do it a couple of times you’ll get the hang of it.
Tell your lover how beautiful they are today, or you love those little dimples when they smile. Things like “The look in your eyes makes me ____” or “The way you ___” are good ways to get started.
Write about an adventure you had together and how you felt during or after.
Start writing out a fantasy you think would be fun to try.
Remind them that you care about them and want to make them happy.
If you really mean it, they will feel it in the words. You don’t have to rhyme or use big words just write down your thoughts.
How long should a love letter be?
Make the letter as long as you want. There is no rule that it has to be pages long or even a whole page.
You may want to start out slow and write a little letter or note the first few times and work up to something more or just continue to leave love notes or text every once in a while.
It is not going be the best ever written if you only write I love You! and stop. Writing that will tell your lover how you feel about them, and let them know your thinking about them. Put a little more into it. Tell them you enjoyed waking up next to them this morning, it made me remember ________. Write about a favorite night out together or something they did for you that made you feel loved. Let them know you remember and still like to think about it.
If you can write pages of things you love and remember then do it. You can just write a few lines and still let your feelings out.
Just remember that feelings and effort are what makes a love letter so special. So, if you half ass it when you could have done better, then it will only be half as good as it could have been.
From the heart.
To write the best love letters all you have to do is mean every word you write down.
Don’t write anything you don’t mean. That is as bad as telling a lie. Only say things that come from your heart and express your feelings.
I’ve written a lot of love letters over the years, because I know she likes them. To be honest, many of them say the same thing just written differently, because I was in a different mood that day. You really can not go wrong, as long as you don’t say something insulting in the letter.
They will like it, and if you put your heart into it they will cherish it forever.
Love comes with Responsibility.
Lovers are responsible for each others’ happiness. The easiest part of that should be to keep your love alive. Letting each other know you still care deeply and love each other is the best way to do it.
We let our love get set aside for other responsibilities and forget to put it back in the lead as the most important thing in your relationship. Tell me, what is the use of earning a 6 figure income if your not happy with your home life. We all can do better in keeping our love alive.
If you really do love each other then any love letter you write will be the Best Romantic Love Letter. The fact that you wrote it for them will mean so much as long as you mean the words you wrote.
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